Attaching your heart to this dunya is very painful, a that can be felt in this life or the next. For some women, they give their heart to their husbands in a way that you should only give to Allah. They obey him against the commands of Allah. Every thought is about him, and not about Allah. In their tongue is hardly the name of their Lord, rather they are always mentioning their husbands.
For some women it’s their job or education. They constantly think and talk about their position or work or their plans. But their hearts rarely turn to Allah and their tongues are not moist with Allah’s rememberance.
For some women it’s their children. They mention their name on their lips and their hearts are only to them, such that they let them disobey the One who has given these children to you.